|To see the importance of shared parenting, consider how you, as an adult, would feel if you could see your children only four days a month. Like most parents, you would miss them terribly, even with your adult level of emotional maturity. Children, with their fragile, still-developing emotions, often suffer much more. Children naturally love and need both parents. Sadly, most children of divorce see their non-custodial parent only four days a month.
Not surprisingly, the commonly used sole custody approach can result in serious problems for children. Children raised in single parent families are at greater risk for juvenile delinquency, teen pregnancy, poor grades, drugs, dropping out of school, and other trouble. These risks occur even after factoring in differences in income. In fact, risks are even higher in step families, despite their significantly higher income. Research shows that the lack of involvement by both natural parents is a primary cause of these risks. The phrase "two heads are better than one" is old fashioned wisdom, but it reflects the thought behind CRC's slogan that the best parent is both parents.
The concept of shared parenting, or joint custody, was developed about 1970 to help provide for the active participation of both parents in raising their children. The first joint custody statute was passed in Indiana in 1973, and since then shared parenting has spread to all 50 states.
Children need both parents
Shared parenting helps provide emotional stability for children by promoting the involvement of both parents. There are two aspects to shared parenting in divorce: joint legal custody, which refers to shared decision making responsibility between divorced parents, and joint physical custody, which provides children with a more balanced residential arrangement than was allowed under sole custody. With joint physical custody, children spend at least 30% of their time with each parent. This may be accomplished with an evenly balanced, alternating week arrangement, or through other arrangements that provide ways for the children to spend significant amounts of time with both parents. Joint legal custody has become the norm in most states in the U.S. Joint physical custody is less common, but Federal government statistics show that more than one fifth of divorced families had an equal shared parenting arrangement in 1997, and in some states shared parenting has become the predominant type of custody award. (See Custody Statistics.)
Shared parenting has become popular because it works so well for children. A quarter-century of research has shown that kids do best with both parents involved in raising them, even if the parents are divorced. (See Research findings.)
Why shared parenting? The alternative to shared parenting (joint physical custody) is sole custody, which presents enormous risks for children. Risks of sole custody: Raising a child as a single parent is extraordinarily difficult. Even the hardest working single parent may not be able to couteract the damage from loss of a strong relationship with both parents. Children raised by a single parent are at an extremely high risk of serious trouble in school, teen pregnancy, drug use, and countless other problems. You may know a family like this. The best way to protect children from the stresses of parental divorce is to ensure a strong relationship with both parents (when both are fit) through a balanced, equal amount of time with both. This arrangement most closely mirrors an intact family, which both common sense and careful research shows is the best situation for children. The US Department of Health and Human Services summarizes the risks of single parent families:
"More than a quarter of American children—nearly 17 million—do not live with their father. Girls without a father in their life are two and a half times as likely to get pregnant and 53 percent more likely to commit suicide. Boys without a father in their life are 63 percent more likely to run away and 37 percent more likely to abuse drugs. Both girls and boys are twice as likely to drop out of high school, twice as likely to end up in jail and nearly four times as likely to need help for emotional or behavioral problems."Children need both their mothers and their fathers. Children do best with both parents together. If your spouse wants a divorce, do everything you can to keep your family together. But if you cannot stop the divorce, don't let your children grow up in sole custody. More about the risks of sole custody can be found here. Comments from a wise judge:
"Although the dispute is symbolized by a 'versus' which signifies two adverse parties at opposite poles of a line, there is in fact a third party whose interests and rights make of the line a triangle. That person, the child who is not an official party to the lawsuit but whose well-being is in the eye of the controversy, has a right to shared parenting when both are equally suited to provide it. Inherent in the express public policy is a recognition of the child's right to equal access and opportunity with both parents, the right to be guided and nurtured by both parents, the right to have major decisions made by the application of both parents' wisdom, judgement and experience. The child does not forfeit these rights when the parents divorce."
--Presiding Judge Dorothy T. Beasley, Georgia Court of Appeals, "In the Interest of A.R.B., a Child," July 2, 1993
Research on Shared Parenting and Joint Custody
Joint custody and shared parenting have been studied for more than a quarter-century, with the majority of studies indicating significant benefits for children. About a third of existing studies show no difference between joint and sole custody for children's adjustment to divorce. The critical factor appears to be conflict between parents. When parents cooperate and minimize conflict, children do much better with shared parenting. If there is significant conflict between parents, however, children may do no better (but no worse) than they do in sole custody. This section summarizes some of the research published in the past two decades.
Joint Physical Custody -the arrangement in which a child spends at least one-third of their time with each parent, often 50/50 time division between parents.
Joint Legal Custody - situations in which both parents have some legal decision-making role, but the child's living arrangement is the same as sole custody (non-custodial parent is permitted four days a month with the child).
Extreme Situations - cases of high conflict, sometimes including domestic violence.
Sole Custody - the traditional arrangement in which the child lives with one parent and visits the other parent every other weekend, plus two weeks in summer.
Joint Physical Custody
Bauserman, R., (2002) "Child
Adjustment in Joint-Custody Versus Sole-Custody Arrangements: A Meta-Analytic
Review", Journal of Family Psychology, Vol. 16, No. 1, (2002) 91-102.
This is the most comprehensive statistical analysis of joint custody ever conducted (both joint physical and joint legal).
Its findings were so noteworthy that the American Psychological Association published a news release highlighting the study.
APA news release: "Children Likely to be Better Adjusted in Joint vs. Sole Custody Arrangements, According to Review of Research"
Full report in PDF format
"Children in joint physical
or legal custody were better adjusted than children in sole-custody settings,
but no different from those in intact families. More positive adjustment
of joint-custody children held for separate comparisons of general adjustment,
family relationships, self-esteem, emotional and behavioral adjustment,
and divorce-specific adjustment. Joint-custody parents reported less current
and past conflict than did sole-custody parents, but this did not explain
the better adjustment of joint-custody children. The results are consistent
with the hypothesis that joint custody can be advantageous for children
in some cases, possibly by facilitating ongoing positive involvement with
Fabricius, W.V. (2003) Listening to Children of Divorce Family Relations Volume 52 Issue 4 Page 385 - October 2003
"I review new findings on (a) college students' perspectives on their living arrangements after their parents' divorces, (b) their relations with their parents as a function of their living arrangements, (c) their adjustment as a function of their parents' relocation, and (d) the amount of college support they received. Students endorsed living arrangements that gave them equal time with their fathers, they had better outcomes when they had such arrangements and when their parents supported their time with the other parent, they experienced disagreement between mothers and fathers over living arrangements, and they gave evidence of their fathers' continuing commitment to them into their young adult years." --
Kelly, J. B. (2000). Children’s
adjustment in conflicted marriage and divorce: A decade review of research.
Journal of the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry, 39,
"Joint custody led to better child outcomes overall. " from abstract
Kelly, J., Current research on children's postdivorce adjustment. Family and Conciliation Courts Review, 31.29-49, 1993
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On child satisfaction: "Children have expressed higher levels of satisfaction with joint physical custody than with sole custody arrangements; citing the benefit of remaining close to both parents. Joint custody does not create confusion for the majority of youngsters about their living arrangements or about the finality of the divorce, nor does increase loyalty conflicts (Leupnitz, 1982; Shiller, 1986a, 1986b; Steinman, 1981)."
On parent satisfaction: "A surprising finding in one study was that mothers who share custody are more satisfied than those having sole custody and whose children see their father periodically. However, both groups expressed more satisfaction with their residential arrangement than did sole-custody mothers whose children had no paternal contact."
On conflict situations: "Dual-residence (joint physical custody) parents had the highest co-operative-communication scores but did not differ from mother custody or father custody parents in the amount of discord. Shared residence did not exacerbate or diminish conflict but did appear to lead to more co-operative communication."
On child adjustment: "The adjustment of 517 adolescents (aged 10 years, 6 months to 18 years) in three residential arrangements was compared 4.5 years after separation by Buchanan, Maccoby, and Dornbusch (in press). Looking at both family process and status variables, these researchers assessed adolescent adjustment in terms of depression, deviance, school effort, and school grades. Statistically, more boys were in dual-residence and father-residence arrangements, whereas more girls were in mother-residence arrangements. Overall, dual-residence adolescents were better adjusted than were mother-residence adolescents."
Fabricius, W.V. and J. Hall, (2000) "Young Adults Perspective on Divorce", Family and Conciliation Courts Review, Vol. 38, 446-461.
"Our participants, who have lived through their parents' divorces and have now entered young adulthood (and college) have given us their 'expert' advice. Seventy percent of them, men and women alike, believe that living equal amounts of time with each parent is the best arrangement for children."
Amato, P. R. (2000). The consequences of divorce for adults and children. Journal of Marriage and the Family, 62(4), 1269-1287.
"Divorce also has significant impacts on children, according to the research. Many of these impacts tend to be negative. Children are more likely to be poor after divorce, and more likely to experience instability. However, moderating factors include children’s coping skills, and the presence of joint custody. " from abstract
Christoffersen, M. N. (1998). Growing up with dad: A comparison of children aged 3-5 years old living with their mothers or their fathers. Childhood, 5(1), 41-54.
This Danish study used a scientific
sample, drawn from national birth records, of 478 single fathers and 532
single mothers, including situations that can be classified as joint physical
custody. Results indicated that children fared better with single fathers,
possibly as a result of greater contact with the other parent (i.e. joint
physical custody with mother), economic stability of fathers, and more social
support, including greater contact with grandparents.
Ackerman, M.J. and Ackerman, M. "Custody Evaluation Practices: A Survey of Experienced Professionals (Revisited)", Professional Psychology: Research and Practice, Vol. 28, No. 2. (1997).
"Psychologists Becoming More Sophisticated In Their Custody Evaluation Practices, Survey Finds"
More Inclined Toward Joint Custody; Less Likely to Make Judgments Based on a Single Factor than 10 Years Ago
This report shows that joint
custody is becoming the option of choice among experts:
"While in 1986 more than half of the situations on the list prompted an endorsement of one parent over the other, by 1996, less than a quarter of the items resulted in endorsement of one parent over the other, indicating a greater preference for joint custody over sole- or single-parent custody than in 1986."
APA announcement: http://mirror.apa.org/releases/custody.html
Adolescents After Divorce, Buchanan, C., Maccoby, and Dornbusch, Harvard University Press,1996.
A study of 517 families with children ranging in age from 10.5 years to 18 years, across a four and a half year period. Measures were: assessed depression, deviance, school effort, and school grades. Children in shared parenting arrangements were found to have better adjustment on these measures than those in sole custody.
Joan B. Kelly, one of the most respected experts in the field of children and divorce, summarized the Buchanan, Maccoby and Dornbusch study as follows: "The adjustment of 517 adolescents (aged 10 years, 6 months to 18 years) in three residential arrangements was compared 4.5 years after separation by Buchanan, Maccoby, and Dornbusch (in press). Looking at both family process and status variables, these researchers assessed adolescent adjustment in terms of depression, deviance, school effort, and school grades. Statistically, more boys were in dual-residence and father-residence arrangements, whereas more girls were in mother-residence arrangements. Overall, dual-residence adolescents were better adjusted than were mother-residence adolescents." (Current research on children's postdivorce adjustment. Family and Conciliation Courts Review, 31.29-49, 1993)
Clarke, S.C., Advance Report
of Final Divorce Statistics, 1989 and 1990. Monthly Vital Statistics Report,
Vol. 43, No. 9, 1995. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention/National
Center for Health Statistics.
Full report text in PDF format
This US Government report reviewed physical custody of children following divorce. Although it did not study children's adjustment, it is significant because it demonstrates that shared parenting (joint physical custody) is becoming commonplace, especially where statutes or courts are supportive. In four of 19 states surveyed, joint physical custody exceeded 30%.
Findings regarding physical custody were summarized by the authors: "In 1990 the wife was awarded custody of the children almost three-fourths (72 percent) of the time in those divorces in which custody was awarded. Joint custody was the second most common arrangement (16 percent) while husbands were awarded custody in 9 percent of these divorces."
Division 16, School Psychology, American Psychological Association, Report to the U.S. Commission on Child and Family Welfare, June 14, 1995.
This report "summarizes and evaluates the major research concerning joint custody and its impact on children's welfare." The report concludes that "The research reviewed supports the conclusion that joint custody is associated with certain favorable outcomes for children including father involvement, best interest of the child for adjustment outcomes, child support, reduced relitigation costs, and sometimes reduced parental conflict." The APA also noted that "The need for improved policy to reduce the present adversarial approach that has resulted in primarily sole maternal custody, limited father involvement and maladjustment of both children and parents is critical. Increased mediation, joint custody, and parent education are supported for this policy."
Bender, W.N. 1994. Joint custody:
The option of choice. Journal of Divorce & Remarriage 21 (3/4): 115-131.
"Joint custody is also the preferred option in high conflict situations because it helps reduce the conflict over time - and that is in the best interests of the children."
Bender reviews current and historical research on the 'myths' of joint custody, i.e. - that joint custody should not be awarded when the mother objects or in high conflict matters. The article describes the benefits of joint custody including that children adjust better post-divorce in joint custody as compared to sole custody awards, children's attachment to both parents post-divorce is essential for healthy child development, joint custody leads to higher levels of financial compliance, relitigation is lower as compared to sole custody, and joint custody leads to the best outcome for children even in high conflict situations because it forces resolution and best leads to reduction of child stress in the long term.
Levy, David L. (ed.) 1993. The best parent is both parents: A guide to shared parenting in the 21st century. Norfolk, Va.: Hampton Roads Publ. Co.
Wilkinson, Ronald Richard, "A
Comparison of Children's Post-divorce Adjustment in Sole and Joint Physical
Custody Arrangements Matched for Types of Parental Conflict" Doctoral
dissertation, 1992; Texas Woman's University
This study included "forty boys and girls, ages 8 to 12, in attendance at selected private secular and parochial schools in a large Southwestern metropolitan area participated, along with their middle to upper-class parents." The study compared adjustment of children in joint and sole physical custody, controlling for level of conflict between parents, to determine if parental conflict would be more detrimental to children in joint or sole custody. The author summarized findings as follows: "Overall, no significant difference between joint and sole physical custody groups was found."
Rockwell-Evans, Kim Evonne, "Parental and Children's Experiences and Adjustment in Maternal Versus Joint Custody Families " Doctoral dissertation, 1991. North Texas State U.
This study compared 21 joint custody and 21 maternal custody families, with children between the ages of 4-15.
Results showed that misbehavior and "acting out" were more common among sole custody children: "A multiple regression analysis of these data found children in joint custody families had fewer behavioral adjustment problems with externalizing behavior than children in mother custody families." "Regardless of custody arrangement, parents with low self esteem were more likely to have children with behavioral adjustment problems when predicting the child's overall behavioral adjustment and internalized behavior."
J. Pearson and N. Thoennes,"Custody After Divorce: Demographic and Attitudinal Patterns", American Journal of Orthopsychiatry, Vol. 60, 1990.
"Consistent with other studies of joint and sole custody [citations], our joint legal and residential noncustodians were decidedly more involved with their children following divorce than were noncustodians in sole custody arrangements. . . . Lastly, respondants in joint custody arrangements wre more apt to perceive their exsopuse as having a good relationship with the children and to report satisfaction with that person's performance as a parent."
" . . . conflict between divorcing parents in our sample did not appear to worsen as a result of the increased demand for interparental cooperation and communication in joint legal or joint residential custody arrangements. To the contrary, parents with sole maternal custody reported the greatest deterioration in the relationships over time."
Glover, R. and C. Steele, "Comparing the Effects on the Child of Post-divorce Parenting Arrangements," Journal of Divorce, Vol. 12, No. 2-3 (1989).
This study evaluated children aged 6 to 15 in the areas of locus of control, self-concept, and family relationships. The children were divided into three groups: shared custody, maternal custody, and intact families. Intact family children had averaged higher than divorced family children on self-concept and father relationships, and shared custody children averaged higher the sole custody children in these areas. Intact family children had fewer least-positive responses in all areas than divorced family children, and shared custody children had fewer least-positive responses than sole custody children in all areas except mother relationship. This study indicates that, on average, a two parent intact family is the best arrangement for children, and a shared parenting arrangement is better than a sole custody arrangement, i.e., a two-parent family is better even if parents are divorced.
Ilfeld, Holly Zingale "Children's perceptions of their relationship with their fathers in three family constellations: mother sole custody, joint custody and intact families" Doctoral dissertation, U. of California, Davis 1989
This study evaluated children's perceptions of their fathers at least four years post-divorce, comparing joint custody, sole custody and intact families. The subjects were 43 latency-age children: 11 from maternal custody families, 14 from joint custody families and 18 controls from intact homes.
Results: "There was a significant difference in the perceptions of children in sole and joint custody. Joint custody children reported spending more time with their fathers in childcentered activities, activities which were considered pleasurable and important to children. " And: "No differences were found as a function of custody arrangements in children's perceptions of emotional closeness to the father, acceptance by the father, or fathers's potency or activity. "
Lerman, Isabel A. "Adjustment of latency age children in joint and single custody arrangements" California School of Professional Psychology, San Diego, 1989
This study evaluated 90 children, aged 7 to 12, divided equally among maternal, joint legal, and joint physical custody groups.
Results showed negative effects for sole custody: "Single custody subjects evidenced greater self-hate and perceived more rejection from their fathers than joint physical custody subjects." Conflict between parents was found to be a significant factor, which may explain the better adjustment for joint physical custody children: "Degree of interparental conflict was a significant predictor of child self-hate. Higher conflict was associated with greater self-hate; lower conflict was associated with lower self-hate." "Higher father-child contact was associated with better adjustment, lower self-hate, and lower perceived rejection from father; lower father-child contact was associated with poorer adjustment, higher self-hate, and higher perceived rejection from father. "
Joint Legal Custody
Although not as beneficial to children as equal shared parenting (joint physical custody), joint legal custody helps to some extent. The main benefits of joint legal custody are in reducing visitation interference and improving child support compliance.
Joint legal custody has been consistently linked with more parental involvement, higher child support compliance, and less conflict between parents. Until recently, however, it was not clear whether these benefits occurred as a result of joint legal custody, or simply because more cooperative parents chose joint custody in the first place. The 1997 study by Seltzer provides strong evidence for a cause and effect relationship between joint legal custody and the benefits associated with it. -----------------------
Gunnoe, M. L., & Braver, S. L. (in press, 2002). The effects of joint legal custody on family functioning, controlling for factors that predispose a joing award. Washington, DC: National Institute of Mental Health.
Gunnoe and Braver found that joint legal custody was associated with more father-child contact, and may reduce mothers' objections to visitation. Custody type did not predict parental conflict or parental adjustment to divorce. ---------------------------
Grall, T.. Child support for
custodial mothers and fathers: 1997, Current Population Reports, Consumer
Income Series P60-212 (2000). Washington, DC: Bureau of the Census, U.S.
Department of Commerce.
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This US Government research confirmed
earlier findings that joint custody and visitation are significant in increasing
child support compliance:
"Child support compliance was highly related to joint custody and visitation." ------------------------------------------------
Amato, P. R. (2000). The consequences of divorce for adults and children. Journal of Marriage and the Family, 62(4), 1269-1287.
Another study which showed the negative effects of divorce on children and adults. Moderating factors for adults were education and support of familiy and friends. For children, moderating factors were children's coping skills and the presence of joint custody. --------------
Scoon-Rogers, L. (1999). Child
support for custodial mothers and fathers: 1995 (Current Population Reports,
Consumer Income Series P60-196). Washington, DC: Bureau of the Census, U.S.
Department of Commerce.
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This US Government study found that visitation and joint custody increased child support payment rates. --------------------------------------
Seltzer, J. A. (1998). Father by law: Effects of joint legal custody on nonresident fathers’ involvement with children. Demography, 35(2),135-146. (journal publication of report described below).
Seltzer, J. "Father by Law: Effects of Joint Legal Custody on Non-residential Fathers Involvement with Children," NSFH Paper No. 75, Feb., 1997, U. of Wisconsin-Madison, http://ssc.wisc.edu/cde/nsfhwp/home.htm
Seltzer used data from the National Survey of Families and Households, a survey of over 13,000 families that collected data in two waves, 1987-88 and 1992-94. Because the study included data on the quality of family relationships, it was possible to study the effects of joint legal custody while controlling from pre-separation family relationships by analyzing data on families that had separated between the survey waves.
Seltzer concluded that "Controlling for the quality of family relationships before separation and socioeconomic status, fathers with joint legal custody see their children more frequently, have more overnight visits, and pay more child support than fathers in families in which mothers have sole legal custody." She suggests that joint legal custody helps reduce visitation denial: "By clarifying that divorced fathers are 'by law' still fathers, parents' negotiations about fathers' participation in child rearing after divorce may shift from trying to resolve whether fathers will be involved in child rearing to the matter of how fathers will be involved." [emphasis in original] --------------------------
Gunnoe, M.L., and S.L. Braver, "The Effects of Joint Legal Custody on Family Functioning, Controlling for Factors that Predispose a joint award," Child Development.
This study evaluated 273 families, controlling for 28 variables that influence a predisposition to agree on joint legal custody. Controlling for these factors, children in joint legal custody families had more time with their fathers and fewer adjustment an behavior problems. The custody type, however, did not affect the adjustment of fathers or mothers post-divorce, conflict between ex-spouses, or child support compliance. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Sanford Braver,"Determining the Impact of Joint Custody on Divorcing Families",
Study consisted of 378 families; some with unmatched partners, in various custody arrangements.
". . .Sharlene Wolchik, Iwrin Sandler and I found in 1985 that children in joint custody had higher feelings of self-worth than children in sole maternal custody."
"Our results showed considerable benefits for joint custody, even when equating predisposing factors. After this adjustment, children in joint custody were found to be significantly better adjusted, and to exhibit less antisocial and implulsive behavior than sole custody families. Fathers also visited more, and were more involved in child care, as well as more satisfied with the divorce settlement. Mothers, however, were significantly less sataisfied with the custody arrangements in joint custody families."
"When the couple disagrees initially, which is better for the family, for the father to get his preference (joint [custody]) or for the mother to get her preference (sole [custody])? We found that the groups differed significantly in terms of how much financial child support was paid: when sole custody was that arrangement despite the fathers' wishes, 80% was paid (according to what the father reported; the figure was 64% by mothers' report), while when joint custody was awarded despite the mothers' preference, it zoomed to almost perfect comliance (97% by fathers' report; 94% by mothers' report) . . . A similar relationship was found for fathers' contact with the child. It was significantly highest for the group in which joint custody was awarded despite the mothers' preference." "Joint custody, even when awarded despite the contrary preference of the mother, leads to more involved fathers, and almost perfect of financial child support; controlling for predisposing factors, it leads to better adjusted children. . . We belive these findings call for policy makers, in the best interest of the children, to adopt a presumption that is rebuttable for joint legal custody, that is, a judicial preference that both parents retain their right and responsibilities toward their children post divorce." --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
In situations with high levels of conflict, mental illness, or domestic violence, joint physical custody is no better (and no worse) than sole custody. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Kelly, J. B.. Children’s adjustment in conflicted marriage and divorce: A decade review of research. Journal of the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry, 39, 963-973 (2000).
This study re-confirmed the negative effects of divorce and high conflict between parents (in divorce or marriage), particularly in risk of drug use, lower academic achievement and behavior problems. However, some factors reduced problems: 1) children whose fathers remain involved with their school activities have better outcomes, 2) divorce and custody mediation results in lower conflict between parents, 3) joint custody leads to better outcomes for children.
Surviving the Breakup, J. Wallerstein
and J. Kelly;
Second Chances, J. Wallerstein and S. Blakeslee; and other publications.
Judith Wallerstein and colleagues have produced many publications on a 20+ year study of 184 families that had been referred to her clinic for therapy. The parents were predominantly mentally ill, with approximately half the men and half the women "moderately disturbed or frequently incapacitated by disabling neuroses and addictions," including some who were "sometimes suicidal." An additional 20% of the women and 15% of the men were categorized as "severely disturbed." Approximately one third of the sample were considered to have "adequate psychological functioning" before divorce. Although there was a significant level of attrition, with families dropping out of the study when problems were resolved, some conclusions emerged from the remaining families. Children in joint custody situations did no better than those in sole custody, indicating that parents must be reasonably psychologically healthy for shared parenting to benefit children.
Johnston, Janet R., Marsha Kline,
and Jeanne M. Tschann,
"Ongoing Postdivorce Conflict: Effects on Children of Joint Custody and Frequent Access," American Journal of Orthopsychiatry, Vol. 59, No. 4 (Oct. 1989).
Johnston et al. studied 100 low income families involved in ongoing custody disputes that included frequent verbal and physical aggression. Approximately one third of the children were in joint physical custody arrangements averaging 12 days per month with the less-seen parent, with the others in either mother or father sole physical custody averaging 4 days a month with the less-seen parent. The study found that "there was no clear evidence that children are better adjusted in either custody type", and that "mean scores for the Child Behavior Checklist lie within the normal range for all custody types." Also, "there was no evidence that the clinically disturbed children were more likely to be in joint than in sole custody." However, the study did find that more frequent contact between parents in either joint or sole custody arrangements was "associated with more emotional and behavioral problems in the children."
Johnston's study indicates that shared parenting may not reduce disputes between parents in extreme high-conflict situations, but also shows that sole custody does not protect children from the effects of conflict between parents. In high conflict situations, it is probably better to reduce interaction between parents. For example, parents can pick up children from school instead of from the other parent's house.
The study did find one significant benefit from shared parenting even in these cases: "Only one parent with joint custody ceased contact with her child, whereas 12 parents of sole custody children 'dropped out'." Thus joint custody does appear to protect children from the complete loss of a parent, even in high conflict situations.
Children raised in sole custody, single parent situations are at an extremely high risk of serious trouble in school, teen pregnancy, drug use, and countless other problems. The US Department of Health and Human Services summarizes the risks of sole custody, single parent families:
"More than a quarter of American children—nearly 17 million—do not live with their father. Girls without a father in their life are two and a half times as likely to get pregnant and 53 percent more likely to commit suicide. Boys without a father in their life are 63 percent more likely to run away and 37 percent more likely to abuse drugs. Both girls and boys are twice as likely to drop out of high school, twice as likely to end up in jail and nearly four times as likely to need help for emotional or behavioral problems."
The risks of sole custody have been documented extensively. Below are some of the more recent studies. Joint custody helps to minimize these risks because both parents continue to be involved.
K. Crowder and J. Teachman,(2004) “Do Residential Conditions Explain the Relationship Between Living Arrangements and Adolescent Behavior?” Journal of Marriage and Family 66 : 721-738.
“the odds of experiencing
a premarital pregnancy are two times higher for those from solo single-parent
families than for those from other family types.”
“a 25-point increase in the percentage of time spent with a solo single parent during childhood increases the odds of dropping out by about 32%.”
B.J. Ellis et al., “Does Father Absence Place Daughters at Special Risk for Early Sexual Activity and Teenage Pregnancy?” Child Development 74: 801-821
there is “a dose-response
relationship between timing of onset of father absence and early sexual
“early father-absent girls had the highest rates of both early sexual activity and adolescent pregnancy, followed by late father-absent girls, followed by father-present girls.”
“rates of teenage pregnancy...were 7 to 8 times higher among early father-absent girls, but only 2 to 3 times higher among late father-absent girls, than among father-present girls.”
Gunilla Ringbäck Weitoft, Anders Hjern, Bengt Haglund, and Måns Rosén, “Mortality, severe morbidity, and injury in children living with single parents in Sweden: A population-based study,” The Lancet, Vol. 361, No. 9354 [25 January 2003]: 289-295
“...girls with single parents
were more than twice as likely to commit suicide and more than three times
as likely to die from an addiction to drugs or alcohol than were girls with
two parents. Boys of single parents were more than five times more likely
to die from an addiction to drugs or alcohol, more than three times as likely
to die from a fall or poisoning, and four times more likely to die from
“After adjustment for age, the risk of dying was more than 50% greater in boys in single-parent families than in those boys living with both parents.”
Marielle Kroes et al., “A Longitudinal Community Study: Do Psychosocial Risk Factors and Child Behavior Checklist Scores at 5 Years of Age Predict Psychiatric Diagnoses at a Later Age?” Journal of the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry 41: 955-963,
“living in a single-parent
family and having a life event [such as a serious illness, a parental divorce,
or the death of a family member] were the most important predictors of mood
and anxiety disorders.”
J. M. Hilton and E. L. Devall, “Comparison of Parenting and Children’s Behavior in Single-Mother, Single-Father, and Intact Families,” Journal of Divorce & Remarriage, Vol. 29, Nos. 3/4 , pp. 23-50.)
6- to 10-year-old children raised
in divorced-mother households showed a significantly increased likelihood
“to lie, destroy property, and associate with children who got into
findings “particularly disturbing given that the children in the sample were pre-adolescent.”
B. J. Ellis et al., “Quality of Early Family Relationships and Individual Differences in the Timing of Pubertal Maturation in Girls: A Longitudinal Test of an Evolutionary Model,” Journal of Personality and Social Psychology" 77 : 387-401
“girls who were in single-mother
homes at age 5 tend[ing] to experience earlier puberty.”
“early onset of puberty in girls is associated with negative health and psychosocial outcomes,” including “more emotional problems, such as depression and anxiety” and “alcohol consumption and sexual promiscuity.”
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Bilimsel Araştırmalar, "Ortak Velayet" Uygulamasının, Çocuğun Gelişimi İçin En Uygun Çözüm Olduğunu Kanıtlamaktadır !.
Türkiye’de çocuğun velayeti tek bir ebeveyne verilmekle birlikte gelişmiş ülkelerde velayet iki ebeveyn arasinda eşit olarak paylaştırabilmektedir. Çocuk için en ideal olanı her iki ebeveynin de çocukla ilgili kararlara aktif katılması, çocuğun sınırlama olmaksızın istediği kadar her iki ebeveyni de görebilmesidir. Boşanma sonrasında en sık görülen negatif durum, eski eşlerin çocuk bakımı ve görüşmeler konusunda çatışmalarıdır. Çatışmaları çocuk üzerinden devam ettirerek birbirlerini cezalandırma, öfkelerini aktarma yolu olarak çocuğu kullanma ortaya çıkabilir. Çocuk velayeti ile ilgili düzenleme ne olursa olsun, çocuğunuzun ihtiyaçları her zaman birinci planda gelmelidir. Tatiller ve doğum günlerinde ne yapılacağına karar verirken çocuk için en iyi olan üzerinde odaklanmaya gayret edilmelidir.
Bizdeki velayet uygulamasının yani velayetin tek ebeveyne verilmesinin sakıncaları, riskleri, çocuk gelişimi üzerindeki zararları dünyada çok yaygın olarak bilinmektedir. ABD’de 33 yıldır “Ortak Velayet” yöntemi uygulanmaktadır. Bu yöntem sayesinde çocuğa analı-babalı büyüme şansı verilmiş olmaktadır. Boşanan eşlerin çocuklarında görülen erken hamilelik, alkol, sigara, uyuşturucu kullanımı, okul başarısızlıkları, psikolojik sorunlar, depresyon, evden kaçma, suç işleme ve intihar vakalarının, ortak velayet uygulaması olan çocuklarda bariz olarak düştüğü görülmüştür.